I am the biggest believer in the great love story. And just like with any story, there are many chapters. Why “Not My Guys?” It started years prior, when I, or a girlfriend, would be recounting a date. We would be trying to explain why it just didn’t feel like “it,” and at some point in the conversation, one of us would interject, and say, “he’s just not your guy.” It’s simple really. And it’s all part of the process.

Every experience is viewed with gratitude. Every date. Every man. Compassion for previous versions of myself that settled for very little. There have been a lot of laughs. A lot of disappointment. A lot of tears. But most of all, I still believe in love and my great love story. Hopefully these stories of mine will bring some levity to your day. To your experience. Probably gratitude for your relationship, if you have one, or maybe camaraderie in the world of dating.

And since I am known for just going for it, sometimes in a way that can be perceived as reckless, I would like to offer a disclaimer that what I have done has not always been the smartest and definitely should not be taken as advice. These are my stories. My experiences, seen through the lens of who I was at the time. Enjoy!

XO,

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