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He Wears an Apple Watch

    He Wears an Apple Watch

    Lately, I keep thinking about things I wish I had learned earlier, and how that knowledge would…
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    Hungry for Feedback

      Hungry for Feedback

      Recently, I have had a few men ask for feedback when I have shared that I am…
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      It’s Always Both

        It’s Always Both

        The glass. We grow up thinking it’s either half full or half empty, but my mom taught…
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        At Some Point You Graduate

          At Some Point You Graduate

          I signed up for a free Zoom class with one of my favorite life coach type people.…
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          Today

            Today

            I was talking with someone who works on our home, and he brought up the idea of…
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            I Don’t Want the Sea Bass

              I Don’t Want the Sea Bass

              “I’ll have the sea bass.” As I passed my order onto the waiter, I felt small inside.…
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              Because it’s Stupid

                Because it’s Stupid

                After a conversation with someone new-ish in my life, I was wrestling with something he shared and…
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                Is Red Nail Polish the Answer?

                  Is Red Nail Polish the Answer?

                  It’s an early snowy morning, and as I’m preparing to share my thoughts here, I start painting…
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                  Kindly Circling Back

                    Kindly Circling Back

                    “If you have to circle back, it probably wasn’t the thing,” said a girlfriend. We were sharing…
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                    Go Fish

                      Go Fish

                      A colleague was talking about his weekend fly fishing and how he got two bites, but nothing…
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                      Too Soon?

                        Too Soon?

                        “It’s your life, pretty girl.” My girlfriend was telling me about her second date and how he…
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                        Upon Further Review

                          Upon Further Review

                          Time out taken…the ruling on the field might be overturned. The first date had been going so…
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                          The Me in Metric

                            The Me in Metric

                            We get to choose what metrics we use to define success in our lives. And it is…
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                            You Looked Like You Were Having a Good Time

                              You Looked Like You Were Having a Good Time

                              I spoke at my grandma’s funeral. We were extremely close, and she lived a long life, so…
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                              You Deserve a Bed that Doesn’t Break

                                You Deserve a Bed that Doesn’t Break

                                Priorities are fascinating. Where we spend our time. Where we spend our money. Where we share our…
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                                You Haunt Me

                                  You Haunt Me

                                  A girlfriend just heard those words from her “Big.” You. Haunt. Me. He, too, has thought about…
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                                  Attraction: An Art or a Science?

                                    Attraction: An Art or a Science?

                                    Does the voice in our heads become the man in our beds? In a podcast discussing attraction,…
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                                    The Ecstasy of Effort

                                      The Ecstasy of Effort

                                      Walking home from the store yesterday, I am stopped at a light. This guy walks up, also…
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                                        He Wears an Apple Watch

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                                          Hungry for Feedback

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                                            It’s Always Both

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                                              At Some Point You Graduate

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                                                Today

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                                                  I Don’t Want the Sea Bass

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                                                    Because it’s Stupid

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                                                      Is Red Nail Polish the Answer?

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                                                        Kindly Circling Back

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                                                          Go Fish

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                                                            Too Soon?

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                                                              Upon Further Review

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                                                                The Me in Metric

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                                                                  You Looked Like You Were Having a Good Time

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                                                                    You Deserve a Bed that Doesn’t Break

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                                                                      You Haunt Me

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                                                                        Attraction: An Art or a Science?

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                                                                          The Ecstasy of Effort

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                                                                            I Miss You

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