{"id":704,"date":"2024-08-01T17:49:06","date_gmt":"2024-08-01T23:49:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/?page_id=704"},"modified":"2024-08-01T20:57:16","modified_gmt":"2024-08-02T02:57:16","slug":"blogs","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/?page_id=704","title":{"rendered":"Blogs"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-query is-layout-flow wp-block-query-is-layout-flow\"><ul class=\"wp-block-post-template is-layout-flow wp-block-post-template-is-layout-flow\"><li class=\"wp-block-post post-2974 post type-post status-publish format-image has-post-thumbnail hentry post_format-post-format-image\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-post-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/?p=2974\" target=\"_self\" >The Golfer<\/a><\/h2>\n\n<figure class=\"alignwide wp-block-post-featured-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/?p=2974\" target=\"_self\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2160\" height=\"1440\" src=\"https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/qtq80-2s0oCx.jpeg\" class=\"attachment-post-thumbnail size-post-thumbnail wp-post-image\" alt=\"The Golfer\" style=\"object-fit:cover;\" srcset=\"https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/qtq80-2s0oCx.jpeg 2160w, https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/qtq80-2s0oCx-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/qtq80-2s0oCx-1024x683.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/qtq80-2s0oCx-768x512.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/qtq80-2s0oCx-1536x1024.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/qtq80-2s0oCx-2048x1365.jpeg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2160px) 100vw, 2160px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-post-excerpt\"><p class=\"wp-block-post-excerpt__excerpt\">&#8220;Can you cement a door shut?&#8221; I asked my girlfriend while I was explaining that a door I held open for almost a decade was forever closed. I was referring to someone I had dated on and off, and sharing what I had just heard about him that was beyond disgusting that there would be&hellip; <\/p><\/div>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-post-date\"><time datetime=\"2026-09-17T07:34:48-06:00\">September 17, 2026<\/time><\/div>\n<\/li><li class=\"wp-block-post post-2913 post type-post status-publish format-image has-post-thumbnail hentry post_format-post-format-image\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-post-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/?p=2913\" target=\"_self\" >Rinse and Repeat<\/a><\/h2>\n\n<figure class=\"alignwide wp-block-post-featured-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/?p=2913\" target=\"_self\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2160\" height=\"1440\" src=\"https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/qtq80-Qykt2M.jpeg\" class=\"attachment-post-thumbnail size-post-thumbnail wp-post-image\" alt=\"Rinse and Repeat\" style=\"object-fit:cover;\" srcset=\"https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/qtq80-Qykt2M.jpeg 2160w, https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/qtq80-Qykt2M-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/qtq80-Qykt2M-1024x683.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/qtq80-Qykt2M-768x512.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/qtq80-Qykt2M-1536x1024.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/qtq80-Qykt2M-2048x1365.jpeg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2160px) 100vw, 2160px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-post-excerpt\"><p class=\"wp-block-post-excerpt__excerpt\">The adage about how you can&#8217;t visit the same river twice, because you are not the same and the river is not the same, doesn&#8217;t seem to fully apply to getting back together with an ex. Which is somewhat puzzling when I know I&#8217;m not the same. But is the current of familiarity so strong&hellip; <\/p><\/div>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-post-date\"><time datetime=\"2026-09-12T07:23:56-06:00\">September 12, 2026<\/time><\/div>\n<\/li><li class=\"wp-block-post post-2681 post type-post status-publish format-image has-post-thumbnail hentry post_format-post-format-image\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-post-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/?p=2681\" target=\"_self\" >What if I Knew?<\/a><\/h2>\n\n<figure class=\"alignwide wp-block-post-featured-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/?p=2681\" target=\"_self\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1254\" height=\"836\" src=\"https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/qtq80-ahnT4X.jpeg\" class=\"attachment-post-thumbnail size-post-thumbnail wp-post-image\" alt=\"What if I Knew?\" style=\"object-fit:cover;\" srcset=\"https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/qtq80-ahnT4X.jpeg 1254w, https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/qtq80-ahnT4X-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/qtq80-ahnT4X-1024x683.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/qtq80-ahnT4X-768x512.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1254px) 100vw, 1254px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-post-excerpt\"><p class=\"wp-block-post-excerpt__excerpt\">I have long thought about how life is a puzzle, and how we only see the piece of the puzzle that we are on. Possibly some bordering pieces, but those are blurry. If we knew how it would all come together, we might wait. Stay stagnant and then possibly not be the version we need&hellip; <\/p><\/div>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-post-date\"><time datetime=\"2026-06-11T06:54:57-06:00\">June 11, 2026<\/time><\/div>\n<\/li><\/ul><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_coblocks_attr":"","_coblocks_dimensions":"","_coblocks_responsive_height":"","_coblocks_accordion_ie_support":"","footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-704","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/704","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=704"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/704\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/notmyguys.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=704"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}