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“Can you cement a door shut?” I asked my girlfriend while I was explaining that a door I held open for almost a decade was forever closed. I was referring to someone I had dated on and off, and sharing what I had just heard about him that was beyond disgusting that there would be…

The adage about how you can’t visit the same river twice, because you are not the same and the river is not the same, doesn’t seem to fully apply to getting back together with an ex. Which is somewhat puzzling when I know I’m not the same. But is the current of familiarity so strong…

I have long thought about how life is a puzzle, and how we only see the piece of the puzzle that we are on. Possibly some bordering pieces, but those are blurry. If we knew how it would all come together, we might wait. Stay stagnant and then possibly not be the version we need…