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Carpe-the-Moment

    Carpe-the-Moment

    “That would only happen to you,” my girlfriend laughingly said as I had just rushed back into…
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    The Best Laid Plans

      The Best Laid Plans

      This is a cautionary tale as this week has not gone as planned, and all because I…
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      Naturally Equipped

        Naturally Equipped

        Sometimes when I’m shopping online, I’ll hear a voice that says: “you have everything you need.” That…
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        The Bingo Card

          The Bingo Card

          I have a girlfriend who often says, “well that was not on my bingo card this year.”…
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          Non-negotiable

            Non-negotiable

            On the dating apps, one of the commonly used prompts is “a non-negotiable is…” A girlfriend and…
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            As Described

              As Described

              At a beautiful hotel, with colleagues on a work trip, I ordered the açaí bowl for breakfast.…
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              The Last Time

                The Last Time

                Impermanence is a key theme in Buddhism. In an effort to cultivate presence and mindfulness, there is…
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                Single, Again

                  Single, Again

                  It was the best delivery of the question I had heard. We were in the lounge area…
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                  How About Now?

                    How About Now?

                    Timing. Persistence. Surrender. Vulnerability. A lot of concepts, goals there, but follow along for a minute. There…
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                    Maybe it is Me

                      Maybe it is Me

                      In a recent conversation, I was sharing that I wonder if my dating decisions have been to…
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                      The Dating Pool

                        The Dating Pool

                        “Maybe this is as deep as he goes. You’ve reached his maximum depth.” Those were wise words…
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                          Carpe-the-Moment

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                            The Best Laid Plans

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                              Naturally Equipped

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                                The Bingo Card

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                                  Non-negotiable

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                                    As Described

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                                      The Last Time

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                                        Single, Again

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